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Sister Miriam Mendez

Sister Miriam Mendez
A Profession Story, September 19, 2009

Professions

"There is a rhythm to daily life at the monastery and a rhythm to living The Rule of Benedict. People sense the love and peace of this community and are drawn to the balanced life."
~ Sister Miriam Mendez

How did a hospice nurse and mother of three from California become a Benedictine Sister in North Central Idaho?

For Sister Miriam Mendez, it was almost a case of the empty nest syndrome. Her daughter had graduated from high school and Sr. Miriam wondered, “What am I going to do now?”

Although she enjoyed her work and wasn’t looking for a big life change, she felt a strong desire to discover new meaning for her life. Her search led her to volunteer at Sacred Heart Monastery in Richardton, N.D., where she realized she had a Benedictine heart and soul.

Sr. Mary Forman, Monastery of St. Gertrude, was working with the spirituality program at Sacred Heart and Sr. Miriam had an opportunity to speak with her. She expressed her affinity for the Benedictine way of life, which weaves prayer, work, study and leisure, but shared her doubts about being eligible for the religious life, since she was a divorced mother. Sr. Mary assured her that the community at St. Gertrude’s included women who had been married and had children. That conversation opened possibilities for Sr. Miriam.

Sister Miriam Mendez at work in the Monastery Book & Gift Shop

Sister Miriam Mendez at work in the Monastery
Book & Gift Shop.

Before her visit to Richardton, Sr. Miriam had contacted Sr Judith Brower, of St. Gertrude’s, to request that her subscription to Monastery Well be redirected while she was on vacation. She fell into a conversation with Sr. Judith about her trip and was subsequently invited to visit St. Gertrude’s in November, 1999.

“I wasn’t here 12 hours before I knew I was supposed to explore this community. I had to find out what it meant for me,” said Sr. Miriam.

Following her visit, she kept in contact with Sr. Judith and Vocation Director, Sr. Janet Marie Barnard, becoming an affiliate in October of 2001. She made her first monastic profession on March 21, 2006. Her perpetual monastic profession was three years later, on September 19, 2009.

Sr. Miriam’s ministry is managing the monastery’s Book & Gift Shop. She also enjoys creative work such as needlework, photography, music and stained glass.

Sr. Miriam sees life as a Benedictine Sister as being a witness to the world. “These are hard times and the future is challenging for the Church and for the world,” she said. “There is a rhythm to daily life at the monastery and a rhythm to living The Rule of Benedict. People sense the love and peace of this community and are drawn to the balanced life.”

She is at peace with the direction her life has taken and continues to discover how she can represent Benedictine values to the world.


 

 

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